Stephen and Kate:
Thanks for publishing this on the Net it was indeed fascinating.
It is interesting that a simple game such as golf has very few rules which
"define the game" i.e., get the ball in the hole in the least number of shots. (What could be simpler.)
However, the rulebook is now many pages long and has grown out of the
exceptions and meta-rules that you have described. In some ways the
playing of the game is writing the rulebook.
The important question is, "Why do we play games?"
Do you think that the number of written rules that must be taken into
account is directly proportional to the value of the stakes being played
for (be they related to money or prestige)?
Does the stake involved affect the perceived "value" of a cheat?
An interesting axiom for casual golf is If you don't know the ruling for
a particular situation, do what you think is fair. I think this is a
suitable rule which can be applied to life in general.
David Wilson